Those who promote or stoke fear use ancient control tactics, and for what? Are they themselves afraid and want to share their emotion? Do they enjoy being afraid and wish to inspire others in a commonality of tension? A man once told me he enjoyed being angry. I wanted to ask why but didn't and have wondered since what might prompt feelings of pleasure from an emotion that is so unpleasant for me. I've wondered if anger is a derivative of fear. Is fear the first emotion that arises when something disturbs the status quo? I have used my most recent blog title, "Fortune Tellers on the Payroll", before, in 2016. Then, as now, I contested the predilection of some people to stoke fear by posting predictions of danger, even disaster, ahead. Why? Does fear of the future tempt a person, group of people, or world to predict the most threatening outcome of any current situation? Might we also be tempted to steer our lives into the very futures we fear? Is it possible that we can meet whatever future with fortitude, courage, and the determination to learn and grow from whatever happens, and to inspire others similarly? My life is a question. I have no answers.
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To Fight or to Win?
I wonder if some people just like to fight. I don’t like it but grew up thinking it was necessary. I don’t like competition of any kind, including competitive sports or games, but I live in a country where it’s anathema to admit it.
I’m an avoider who is more inclined to get caught up in other people’s battles. Like the Greek god Chiron, the wounded healer, I’m the innocent bystander who gets injured by a mis-aimed arrow. I don’t understand the purpose of martyrdom. Did Jesus help anyone by dying on the cross?
My roosters like to fight, so I have to keep them apart. They spar through the gate and attack the hardware cloth that keeps them from doing real damage to each other. But I’m the one who suffers most if either of them gets hurt. Son Speckles blinded father Squire in one eye before he knocked off his own spurs several years ago. Now Squire has torn off his own back toenail and his toe may be broken.
Over the years, both have mellowed, and I wonder if either of them really wants to win. If something happened to either of them, I believe the other would sorely miss the adrenalin rush they generate in each other.
I’ve worked with Vietnam veterans who complained of flashbacks and nightmares from combat duty. After Vietnam, life in the United States seemed bland in comparison. Some admitted to being “adrenalin junkies.” Another man claimed to like being angry. Is this the attraction of contact sports like football, or the intensity of war? The emotional intensity of presumably “masculine” activities?
Our current US culture seems bent on fighting, arguing, opposing and otherwise disagreeing about everything from the climate to sexuality, but I wonder if there’s any purpose to it, except to fight. Does anyone really expect to win, and if so, what would be resolved?
I recently read the book Fear: Trump in the White House, by Bob Woodward, about the Trump campaign and presidency so far. The book’s title is based on a Trump quote, “Real power is—I don’t even want to use the word—fear,” from an interview with the author. Essentially, the book says nothing new but it helps straighten out all the names and roles played by those close to the current administration.
The other night I finished reading a biography of Andrew Carnegie, an 800-page tome by David Nasaw, published in 2006. Carnegie, who lived from 1835 to 1919, was a self-made multi-millionaire who was brutally competitive in his businesses but vowed to dispose of all his money to worthy causes before he died. In his later years he became almost obsessed with the idea of world peace though arbitration. However, a sizable portion of his wealth had been derived from government contracts to manufacture steel plates for battleships. Later, his idea for a League of Peace may have inspired the League of Nations and later the United Nations. He thought war barbaric, was outspoken in his views and used his wealth and fame to give unsolicited advice to presidents Cleveland, McKinley, Roosevelt, Taft, and Wilson, as well as German Kaiser Wilhelm II, and notables in the British government. He feared the arms race between the UK and Germany as early as 1905, beginning with the British Dreadnaught and other monster battleships, but could not establish traction for his ideas regarding universal disarmament or arbitration. It appears the outbreak of World War I broke him, and he—a vociferous showman—went silent for almost four years.
Nasaw says that Carnegie was given to hero worship, and Theodore Roosevelt was his assigned disciple of peace, despite evidence. History shows that Roosevelt was an imperialist and war hawk, who rode to glory in the Spanish-American War; as president he seized the land that became Panama through instigating insurgents against Columbia; and he volunteered for World War I when the US entered, although he was deemed too old at the time. Roosevelt referred to “righteous wars,” and Carnegie replied that all warring individuals and nations believe their particular cause is “righteous.”
The current US President, Donald Trump, campaigned on the several issues regarding war, suggesting the US withdraw from Afghanistan, among other things, according to the book Fear. However, he is surrounded by hawkish military advisers who apparently have convinced him to stay the course, at least for now. He has received praise and criticism for his contentious approach to friends and foes alike. His provocative demeanor invites retaliation from all those “righteous” warriors throughout the world.
There are those who believe refusing to fight indicates weakness or cowardliness, but history shows that fighting fire with fire only makes bigger fires. Does anyone win in a war? In Lincoln’s war, Carnegie was among those, like JP Morgan and John D. Rockefeller, who hired substitutes to fight for them, and they got rich off the war. Who else benefited? The slaves were freed, but slavery was already dying out, if Thomas J. DiLorenzo’s The Real Lincoln is to be believed. DiLorenzo claims Lincoln wanted a war. Lincoln may have won the war, but he lost his life. Some people would rather fight than win.
Where There Is Love . . .
Above: Chicks Toozie and Speckles dirt bathing, January, 2012
I re-read The Four Agreements, (Don Miguel Ruiz, 1997) over the weekend. This is one of many spiritual/self-help/philosophy books that I enjoy reading from time to time. They remind me that all is not what it seems.
The Four Agreements is short and seemingly simple, yet it reinforces concepts I’ve read in other places, albeit in different words. Ruiz begins by claiming we all live in dream worlds, both individual and planetary dreams. He relates this to the Indian (Hindu, Buddhist, and others) concept of “maya,” or “illusion.” He says our planetary dream is a nightmare based on fear.
The remainder of the book describes “four agreements” a person can make to break the grip of fear and create a heaven instead of hell on earth. These are, “Be impeccable in your word; Don’t take anything personally; Don’t make assumptions; and Always do your best.”
Ruiz cites the “nagual,” which is defined as a person in MesoAmerican culture who is a ‘sorcerer,” who can change shapes. It also refers to the great unknown, beyond words or description. Carlos Castaneda also made reference to the “nagual” in the person of his Yaqui Indian mentor in his series of books about don Juan and his teachings. (
Having read widely and extensively about spiritual teachings over the centuries and across cultures, I find a commonality that affirms we are all spiritual beings, although the paths to understanding may be different. The Tao of Physics (Fritjof Capra, 1975) relates Oriental mystical tradition to modern quantum physics. Here, time and space are perceived as relative and subservient to the cosmic “qi,” or essence of everything. Seth, in the Jane Roberts series of channeled books, corroborates this idea and goes beyond it, saying we are limited only by our beliefs. He emphasizes we create our own realities and that “the point of power is in the present.”
All seem to agree that we change the world by changing ourselves and our personal beliefs.
Ruiz’ claim that the world is ruled by fear struck home. As I grow older and experience personal health problems, I’ve had to confront head-on a belief system that humbles and challenges me. It tempts me to give in to fear. It comes from outside but it also results from beliefs I took on, maybe by osmosis, or by conditioning, as Ruiz asserts. Everything from advertising, which exploits fear and insecurity to sell products, to media, which uses fear to promote sensationalist agendas, to religion, which uses fear to subdue believers, is based on the notion that this is, and always will be, a world of suffering.
Is it, and must it be that way, I ask myself. The answer from my inner core and from all the spiritual guidance books I read, is an emphatic “no.” We can choose to be happy, as Ruiz most recently affirmed.
I watched a red-winged blackbird bathing in the watering dish outside my window yesterday. As he splashed around, flinging sparkling droplets in a wide arc, I had to smile and admire him for his ability to find such ecstasy in this simple act. It’s easy for a technologically-gifted human to provide that opportunity, and it makes me happy to see him enjoy it.
I get similar gratification from watching my chickens take their dirt baths. They roll and loll in the dirt, creating little nest-shaped holes in the ground.
How hard can happiness be, I wondered, when we have no fear?
I’ve heard it said that “Where there is love, there is no fear.” Google attributes this to John 4:18 in the Bible, specifically “There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment . . . .” I suspect this is not solely a Christian insight, as Ruiz also relates fear to punishment.
Then, I decided, once again, that it all comes down to love. Even hate and fear are love turned upside down.
How to apply this understanding in a practical way remains a challenge for the “warrior” in the spiritual realm.